Friday, November 28, 2014

Black Friday Deals of Interest




Lilla Rose is having the biggest sale of the year! Don't wait or your selection could be limited.  The flexi is a unique, affordable and durable gift (comes with a one year warranty!). Shop here.  And during the month of December, this beauty, "Crimson Joy" is available while supplies last.  Hurry ya'll.



New, U.S. customers can still get the Buy 3 Get 1 Free deal.  Free item will not appear in cart.  Email me at BLMoore1974@gmail.com for your free item valued at $16 or less.  Free item comes separately and may not be delivered in time for Christmas.




My daughter Shelbi is an Usborne Books Consultant.  More gushing about this later.  But for now, we want to direct your attention to some awesome books for kids, especially since the Black Friday sale is so great. (Don't miss the educational sticker books!!!  My personal fave :)) Go here and browse the catalog.







Do you remember the book Queen of the Home, edited by Jen McBride?  I reviewed it right here.






Jen has done some more work on this book and has added some different authors, including myself.  Such an honor and I thank her!  Right now the new updated Queen of the Home book is only available as a download (hard cover coming soon).  Jen is offering it only for today for just $1. 


Have a great weekend friends!  I leave you with this beautiful quote some friends pointed me to recently:


"Let us take the pure gold of thankfulness, and the jewels of praise and make them into another crown for the head of Jesus."
--C.H. Spurgeon




Wednesday, November 26, 2014

William Bradford's First Thanksgiving {Video}

For fun we just finished watching this animated movie of The First Thanksgiving and I thought you all might enjoy it too :)






And what Thanksgiving would be complete without A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving?  We watch this one every year.  Enjoy!






email subscribers will have to click through to watch the movies.

Or how about these cute printable coloring sheets with Thanksgiving themes?

Thanksgiving Coloring




Saturday, November 22, 2014

Weekend Links





Happy Weekend friends and also Happy November! I have some links to share with you today.  I have wanted to do Weekend Links for awhile but being the procrastinator that I am, I never get around to it until the actual weekend.  And then it always falls through the cracks.  So today you're getting an extra dose of link love. These are posts I have shared on Facebook the last few weeks and some I wanted to share and never got around to.

  • I LOVED this post about hospitality.  It's not the same 'ol, same 'ol.  Jen Wilkin hits the nail on the head with why we don't offer hospitality more and it will encourage you.  Read: Choose Hospitality Over Entertaining.

  • When I saw this post in my feed my first thought was, "Oh no!  What did they do?" But the Harris brothers are still walking the talk they talked several years ago.  If you or your kids read the book Do Hard Things or enjoy The Rebelution blog, you will want to read about what these men are doing now.




  • If your home is like mine and it is rarely quiet, you will be encouraged by this short post: A Peaceful Home.


  • I am really excited about this.  Are You Mom Enough? is a new book written by Rachel Jankovic, Gloria Furman, Rachel Pieh Jones, Christine Hoover, Carolyn McCulley, Trillia Newbell, and Christina fox. You can download a digital copy for free right here.

Lastly, another Lilla Rose party.  Ya'll, everybody wants a flexi clip in November.  You just do.  If you want an awesome deal, just order here.  New customers can get Buy 3 Get 1 Free, free shipping refunded after a $40 order and the first five people to order also get a free set of Lilla Rose bobby pins.









Have a wonderful weekend!






Friday, November 21, 2014

21st Century Women Versus Pilgrim Foremothers


(Originally published in November 2011. Each year at this time I enjoy working on this post a little more, sometimes removing portions or adding to others, or even changing the title. So if it seems familiar...only not...that is why :))


The inscription on the Monument to the Pilgrim Mothers in Plymouth, Massachusetts reads: “They brought up their families in sturdy virtue and a living faith in God without which nations perish.”

Years later, America's foe, British general Lord Cornwallis said:

“We may destroy all the men in America, and we shall still have all we can do to defeat the women.”

Finally, French journalist Alexis de Tocqueville concluded his great work Democracy in America:

"If I were asked, now that I am drawing to the close of this work, in which I have spoken of so many important things done by the Americans, to what the singular prosperity and growing strength of that people ought mainly to be attributed, I should reply:
To the superiority of their women."

 
Why is there a chasm separating our Pilgrim foremothers and 21st century women? If Tocqueville were around today would he attribute America's now weak condition, to the women as well? Is it merely that the years bring changes in clothing, hair-dos and modern conveniences? Surely it's more than that which separates us from these hard-working, resilient, reverent and faithful women.
It is the state of our souls.

Our text-messaging, dinner is pre-made, God-is-my-cosmic-genie-generation has come so far in less than 400 years. Pilgrim women served the God of the universe: Sovereign and just, all-sufficient, even in death; the source and passion of their existence.

An Acceptance of Hardship and Trials

How many of us would travel across an ocean in a cramped, disease infested vessel in desperate conditions, in order to begin again in a location that might prove even more hazardous? Today we avoid any hardships we can. In 2014 our hardships include dilemmas such as

our husbands don't make us happy,

our church doesn't meet our needs, or

we can't find anyone who understands us.

These woes stand in contrast to women such as Mary Fish and Elizabeth Prentiss who endured the grief of widowhood, death of children, financial destruction, poor health, war. Yet their journal entries show that their approach was so different to these trials, than I fear mine would be.

We have lost our theological anchor.  Puritan women were strong because they believed Puritan theology. Virtues that were rooted in sound doctrine began fading throughout the 19th century until, during the 20th century, womanhood was ripe for the self-centered feminist ideas that were trickling down the pike.  In 1620, difficulties were a way of life, and the pilgrims looked forward to Heaven when their toiling would be over. Today we are not so Heavenly minded. We love the world and the comforts it offers us.

When the Lord sends a trial into my life, my first reaction is to rid myself of it. Somehow, someway! I must instead recognize God's hand of providence and learn through what the Lord is teaching me, letting my rule for faith and practice be God's Word

Generational Vision

Many of us live for today, always struggling to be self-fulfilled.  However, the women of 1628 were going to the New World knowing that they themselves might never benefit from it. In William Bradford's history of the Plymouth Settlement he writes:

"...they cherished a great hope and inward zeal of laying good foundations...for the propagation and advance of the gospel of the kingdom of Christ in the remote parts of the world, even though they should be but stepping stones to others in the performance of so great a work."

Willingness to Sacrifice for Their Posterity

Our pilgrim mothers were willing to sacrifice--unto death--for the sake of their children. After living in Holland for eleven years there were many causes (war with Spain on the horizon, poor living conditions) for their decision to go to the New World, not the least of which was the spiritual rescue of their children. Most history books do not include the fact that the small group of Separatists left Holland because they were losing their children to the corrupt ways of the Dutch.  Bradford writes:

"But still more lamentable, and of all sorrows most heavy to be borne, was that many of the children, influenced by these conditions, and the great licentiousness of the young people of the country, and the many temptations of the city, were led by evil example into dangerous courses...leaving their parents. So they saw their posterity would be in danger to degenerate and become corrupt." --William Bradford


How many of us would go to this extreme to remove our children from evil influence? Sadly, I can think of many times I have not even been willing to stand against parental peer pressure or social awkwardness for the sake of my children and the influences they come under. Lord, help us!


Just Passing Through

Finally, these women were "other worldly." Most of us live for the moment, concerned with what's before our eyes, clinging tightly to the possessions we own, the children we have, the futures we think we control. We begin to hold those gifts as idols in our hearts, forgetting the One from whose hand they were given.

Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth Col. 3:2

I want to strive to live as they did; as if I have no attachment to this world. We shouldn't feel comfortable here if we are citizens elsewhere. And the sooner we realize that our identity is in Christ, and not in our earthly riches, education, social status, the good opinion of others, or anything else, the sooner we will get serious about bearing His image, accomplishing His will and being about our Father's business, as they were. As soon as we stop thinking with temporal minds, we will begin to do great and courageous acts such as the women of 1620 did.

It was replied that all great and honorable actions are accompanied with great difficulties, and must be both met and overcome with answerable courage. --William Bradford
 
 
J.I. Packer said that Puritan women were great do-ers, great hopers and great sufferers. He was right.  They were great souls serving a great God and we serve the same One. Women have changed but God is the same yesterday, today and forever.  Our ease and luxury doesn't naturally bring us maturity such as they had. Those women faced the wilds of the wilderness but our generation faces the wilds of moral collapse.  May our great-great-great-granddaughters be as encouraged by our example as we are by our Pilgrim foremothers.

Thursday, November 6, 2014

Lilla Rose Giveaway and Mystery Hostess Party




I haven't mentioned Lilla Rose in awhile, so it is time for some gushing and LRL (Lilla Rose Love).

Lilla Rose is the maker of the unique and beautiful flexi clip.  Say good bye to plastic claw clips forever, ya'll.  Once you try a flexi clip you will never want to go back.  The flexi holds any hair type, helps you achieve a variety of styles, comes with a one year warranty and is affordable (prices start around $10).

The flexi is all one piece.  No losing the pin.  It stays attached! Good news for busy mamas.







There is a huge variety of clips, and lovely hairstyles just take seconds. That's more good new for busy moms ;)




 Lilla Rose also offers gorgeous you-pins and hair sticks.



The Gibson Tuck is one of my favorites.  So simple!  I did a video tutorial here. 










Elegant or casual, toddler or grandmother, there is a flexi for everyone.  You can see some beautiful clothing outfits with flexis as accessories right here.  Be sure to pin them on Pinterest!



The flexi looks great on scarves too!





You can shop here to see the full selection.  But for now, let's have a party! And a giveaway!  We've done this before and it was lots of fun.  Here is how it works:

This Lilla Rose party will have a mystery hostess who will receive all the hostess rewards.  The party will be open and available for orders for one weekThe person who places the largest order will receive all the hostess gifts.

And anyone who is a new Lilla Rose customer, *qualifies for a Buy 3 Get 1 Free deal! Yay.

As if you needed a better deal, Lilla Rose is offering free shipping today and tomorrow on orders over $40.

And no worries if you don't win the hostess gifts--just schedule your own online party.  I'm happy to help you!  Parties are easy and fun and you might just be able to wipe out a lot of Christmas shopping very quickly this way :)

Also, I am giving away this gorgeous scroll heart clip to one person today, in hopes you will help me spread the word about our party here.  So here is the party link to make your order.  I will *update this post with how the party is doing and what the free rewards are up to. *The party total ended at $304 and reader Heidi Cummings was the winner of all the hostess rewards!  Congratulations Heidi!

Enter using the rafflecopter below for your chance to win the free clip!










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Monday, November 3, 2014

Susie Homemaker and the Proverbs 31 Woman (Day 31)


An excellent wife who can find?
    She is far more precious than jewels.
Proverbs 31:10

Proverbs 31 is the conclusion of the book of Proverbs as well as the October series, A Family Walk Through the Proverbs. I realize it is November...I'm late, lol! But I couldn't leave it hanging without finishing with Proverbs 31. Thank you, all of you who graciously commented or sent notes of encouragement.

Proverbs 31 has been on my mind throughout the month.  It contains a beautiful sketch of a noble woman and says a lot about her domestic deeds.  It affirms the home and domesticity.  But I think it is more than that.

It is easy to interpret what we read, in light of our own situation rather than read it and apply it to our situation.  So the tendency, if you are a SAHM like most of the readers here are, is to read Proverbs 31 and assume specific behaviors.

But I'm thankful that Proverbs 31 was for me before I was a stay-at-home-mom.  I'm thankful it is for my single daughters, my divorced friends and all the empty nesters (Someone else called them "open nesters." Their homes may now become more flexible to reach out hands to the needy and show generous hospitality to the Body of Christ.) I'm thankful that Proverbs 31 is for the widow as well as the new bride.

I'm thankful Proverbs 31 is not just for American women in the 21st century, but it is for women of history, women of the future and women in every location on earth.

It is for everyone.  Not simply for those who have the luxury and privilege and great blessing of staying home.

Proverbs 31 depicts a home-hearted woman, and we shouldn't back away from recognizing her domestic skills and trying to cultivate them. Domesticity is a virtue rooted in devotion to home life. A devotion to home life begins with a heart that has been redeemed from sin and is looking toward her perfect Heavenly Home. We are trying to make our homes a place of rest and safety (among other things).  So our domestic deeds are rooted in our theology.

Our deeds of domesticity reveal us as disciples of Christ. We love Jesus and we love his people.  We devote ourselves to caring for them.

Proverbs 31 is not about becoming Susie Homemaker and learning how to decorate with florals or plaids or gardening or learning to cook gourmet food.  It is more than finding warm winter coats for all the kids or learning to sew. It is about a woman who fears the Lord... and therefore her works praise her even if no one else does. Creating a loving home is a woman's privilege that can impact the Church and be felt in all of society.

So much could be said about the conduct, personal habits, compassion toward others in need, resourcefulness, wisdom as a wife, and hard work ethic of the Proverbs 31 woman. Entire books have been written on this and rather than barely scratch the surface of each of her qualities, I am going to list a few resources for you. 

Happy Homemaking, sweet friends.



Homemaking Resources
Biblical Womanhood in the Home, Nancy Leigh Demoss
Praise Her in the Gates, Nancy Wilson
Fruit of Her Hands, Nancy Wilson
Feminine Appeal, Carolyn Mahaney
Becoming God's True Woman, Nancy Leigh Demoss (and others)
Keeping House, Margaret Kim Peterson
Female Piety, John Angell James

Other posts in this series:

Day 1: 31 Days of Waling Through the Proverbs
Day 2: Teaching Them to Search for Treasure
Day 3: Discipline, Love and Not Withholding Good
Day 6: Go to the Ant and Age Appropriate Chore Lists
Day 7: The Stuff Hollywood Movies are Made of
Day 13: A Companion of Fools
Day 14: Demolition Woman
Day 17: On Social Media and Being Deemed Intelligent
Day 22: How to Accept Our children For Who They Are
Day 27: Knowing Your Flock
Day 28: A Merciful Mama

Saturday, November 1, 2014

Thanks For That, Mr. President

 
"Sometimes, someone, usually mom, leaves the workplace to stay home with the kids, which then leaves her earning a lower wage for the rest of her life as a result. That’s not a choice we want Americans to make.”


That was a portion of a speech President Obama made in Rhode Island yesterday, proving once again, that we live in a culture that degrades motherhood and women in the home.  Families who are willing to swim upstream in our culture are dangerously low.  Press on, Mamas.  Don't listen to this stuff.  The ministry you carry on in your home, as you bring up your little ones breathing the clean air of the gospel, will have affects that last far longer than a paycheck.

So wipe those little bottoms. Wash your dishes in faithfulness.  Fold the laundry as unto the Lord and persevere in putting a hot meal on the table each evening. Because even if President Obama doesn't want you to make that choice, God does and so do your children.

 
"...the springs of an empire's prosperity lie in the domestic constitution, and in well-trained families...Even one such family is a contribution to the majestic flow of a nation's greatness.  Can such families exist without a woman's care, and oversight, and wisdom?  Has it not grown into a proverb that home has ever been the nursery of great men, and their mothers their instructresses?
 
It may be said as a general principle, that woman is not only the mother of the body, but of the character, of her children.  To her is first entrusted the instruction of the mind, the cultivation of the heart, the formation of the life.  Thought, feeling, will, imagination, virtue, religion, or the contrary moral tendencies, all germinate under her fostering influence. The greatest power in the moral world is that which a mother exercises over her young child.  The dominant direction which is to determine the whole course of life, lies concealed in the first years of infancy; and there belongs to the mother"

--John Angell James